Author: herlifenotyours

  • Black Girl Book Club – May YA Pick of the Month

    Hello wonderful friends!

    This month’s Young Adult book club pick is Needy Little Things by Channelle Desamours. This is her debut novel and in it we follow Sariyah, a teenager who can see the future or hear what people need. And she gives it to them before they can ask. But, when she fulfills what her friend needs, a short while later the friend disappears. Now she’s trying to figure out what happened to her friend, especially given that this isn’t the first time something like this has occurred.

    It seems like it’ll be a mix of a quest, a fantasy, a little dystopian, plus 100% thrilling. With a 4.08 rating on Goodreads, I’m excited to dive in! I will say though, I am a bit cautious, because it sounds similar to Cinderella is Dead by Kaylynn Bayron and that was a 3-star read for me.

    Crossing my fingers that this will be better!

  • Black Girl Book Club – May Adult Pick of the Month

    Hello wonderful friends!

    This month’s adult book club pick is The Air He Breathes by Brittainy Cherry.

    I’m excited to read from this author for the first time. I’ve heard a lot about her work, especially from Black booktubers. It’s always regarded as emotional and heart-wrenching, which is exactly what I’m in the mood for this month.

    The Air He Breathes is book 1 in the Elements series. In this story, we follow Elizabeth and her (unfortunate? I think, from the blurb on the back) attraction to Tristan. It seems like it’s either a forbidden romance or perhaps a friends-with-benefits turned lovers. I’m unsure. But what I am sure of is that it has a 4.13 rating on Goodreads, so my hopes are high.

  • ACTUAL COSTS of attending Law school in Canada

    A concise list of how much I’ve spent on applying to Law school (so far) and what I anticipate I’ll have to spend. This will be constantly updated as I go through the application process, and all prices are in Canadian dollars.

    Signing up for the LSAT – $222 (twice, since I didn’t do my LSAT in August as planned. This blog post explains why)

    ~ Purchasing additional online tests through the LSAC website

    Materials for studying (for my self-study) – The LSAT Trainer ($64.99); 10 Actual, Official LSAT Tests ($48.25 + $61.62 + $38.42 + $3.99 [this was thrifted])

    The Official LSAT SuperPREP – $3.99 [thrifted]

    Each school’s application fee on the OSLAS website

    Request for transcripts (I’ve been to 4 post-secondary schools)

    Travel to Forums/Info sessions/School Tours

    Running Total = $665.29

  • What to DO BEFORE you apply to Law School

    Welcome back to another post! Today, we’ll explore some things I found helpful to do BEFORE applying to each law school.

    This list might be a bit extra for some. When the goal is law school, why would you want additional stress when the LSAT is already stressful enough? However, where you attend law school might change whether you even continue studying law. The environment you’ll be in, the people you’re surrounded by and how your school is set up can help you all play into your success. As a forward-thinking person, I’ve looked into many things before starting the application process. For context, all law school applications in Canada open by mid-September and all will be closed on or before December 1. I will also be taking the LSAT in October to give myself the chance for improvement in November or January. That said, I take everything I choose to spend my time and money on very seriously. And three years in a long time to be in a place you don’t like. Imagine being in high school all over again, except it’s even harder to transfer and if you fail, there are no alternate pathways such as a GED.

    Law school is serious business. Besides figuring out why law and why law school, here’s what I’m doing before I select a school to apply to:

    Attend school-specific info sessions/workshops. They’ll tell you what’s unique about their program, the make-up of the staff and faculty, the resources available for students and pre-students, the courses you’re taking, and what may/may not stand out on an application to their school. I’m documenting my experiences on my YouTube channel of the sessions I think were most helpful in my application journey. I would even check the websites of schools you’re not interested in to see if they have free sessions you can attend that will help you in the process.

    Review each law school’s website. Do they have clubs? Do they have mental health services? Mentoring? What types of waves have they made in the field of law? If it’s important to you, do they have some dedicated to diversity and equity and can you see this in their photos or their application categories?

    Attend LSAC info session/Forums. I didn’t even know these existed until I saw them on a university’s website. According to the LSAC, you’ll usually be able to interact with people from many or all the law schools in your country. I would suggest you come up with questions specific to each school, and my blog post concerning those is here (it will be posted next week). Make a good impression and present yourself as you wish to be remembered; you never know who you’ll see there. The one I’m attending should also give us law school application tips and access to free resources on the LSAC website. Again, my experience will be documented in as much detail as I’m comfortable giving on my YouTube channel.

    Tour the schools you’re interested in. This will be difficult for some people, especially if you’re like me and some of the schools are in a different province. I would advise checking on YouTube if other students or the school have put up tours of the buildings and the layout of the campus. Here, you will see what the professors are like and what the students are like. Are they stressed out, or knowledgeable and what do they say about school/life balance? Is the location of the school convenient? Is it a campus you imagine yourself in? How far are classes from each other? How does distance play into walking to classes or the library in the winter? Do you feel safe there? What about commuting? All of these questions are important to your law school experience.

    Email their JD Admissions or Student Ambassadors for any questions you may have. For example, my undergraduate program was three years online, and I needed to ensure they would accept this as their academic requirements. I also sought help on which avenue to apply and advice regarding my references. My next step, once I’m about to select schools in my application, will be to email students about their 1L experience. Ask as many questions as you need, and don’t be afraid to. People are there to help.

    Have enough money saved for the application/studying process. Here is my blog post on the hidden costs. As I go through the process of applying on the OSLAS website, I will also be writing and updating this blog post on the actual costs of attending law school.

    Have basic business/professional things accessible and available. These will be needed for in-person forums, applying to law school and general preparation. I would propose (a) professional photos; Mine aren’t professional, but they meet the basics of most applications/photo requirements. (b) your updated resume – a version where the school is at the top (for the law schools) and a version where your work experience is at the top if you start applying for jobs/mentors. (c) your mission statement or 2 key things you want to hit on when people ask you why law.

    Finally, celebrate little wins. and big wins. And your decision to even start this challenging journey, because why did you even choose this life? LOL

    The next post will be what I asked of each law school before choosing them. It’ll be a list of things important to me. As a Black, first-generation female immigrant, what are the things that would be vital for my experience to go smoothly? Again, applying to law school is expensive and time-consuming. I would hate to waste my own time and the time of those who read my application.

    Take care,

    Trudi

  • FREE COLLEGE/UNI RESOURCES you should be using!

    This post is for my introverts, my online students, and my (generally) socially awkward weirdos who sometimes find it hard to get what they want in University. In addition, it’s for those who are new to the post-secondary experience (congratulations!), or those who simply don’t have time to scour your university’s website trying to find what you need. Here are a few things I think EVERYONE should use if you’re paying tuition in college:

    The Writing Centre/Student Academic Services – Academic Services’ job is more than helping those with accommodations. They also help with essay writing, including how to outline and formulate college-level paragraphs. They can also help with setting schedules to stay on track academically; my school gave us access to a system that once you put in the due date of an assignment and your start date, it’ll assign you tasks to ensure you complete it on time. I’m sure there are other things available in the academic centre as well, but these are the ones I found most useful.

    The Library – These lovely people help with research. Which is a big deal if you’re in a social sciences program like I was. During my first semester, I randomly emailed the librarian in charge of helping with a specific topic and she showed me how to use the research website provided by my school, she gave me suggestions on what to type in the search bar, how to choose good articles and how to brainstorm topics that are interesting and relevant. Lovely people. 12/10.

    Peer Mentoring Services – I am biased toward this service because I volunteer as a mentor at my school. We basically answer any questions you have about navigating the school and the resources. For example, I’ve helped people figure out how to start study groups, talk to their professors, and connect them to the resources available. If you’re lucky, your mentor/mentee will be in the same program as you and may be able to give you some insight into what to expect, but if not, they can always direct you to whom you can ask. They’re like older, nice siblings, who want to see you win.

    Career Services – This department helps with resume building, and interviewing skills as well as giving tips on how to construct a good cover letter. For example, it wasn’t until I used the service at my school that I realized you should cater each resume to the job and put the most relevant things first. Sometimes they put on career fairs, which can help you with finding internships, full-time jobs or research assistant positions. This is more helpful for things outside your academic career but still imperative.

    The Gym/Student Clubs – Social life and mental health are very important, especially in these years of your life. Being active helps to alleviate stress and keeps you physically healthy, while student clubs help with mental health and peer interaction/community building. Win/win if you get to be in a club that’s also active and it’s a great way to network at school.

    Your professors and TAs – These were probably my most under-utilized resources during my first year of college. I was so scared to ask questions for fear of feeling dumb, so I would spend hours on my own trying to understand concepts. They’re paid to answer your questions, so use them wisely. If you’re scared to ask a question in class (though this would be better to build rapport), or if your program is online like mine, post on your class’ discussion forums frequently and email the course email to ask questions or point out interesting things. I even link to outside resources I’ve used to help with a specific topic.

    Any Free On-Campus or Virtual Events – At the very least, there’s usually food during on-campus events (so I’ve heard). For online students, it’s an opportunity to connect with people. If you don’t find yourself gravitating towards anyone specifically, have no fear, I’ve seen some universities have ‘study sessions’ or ‘power study groups’ to help foster motivation when studying. And you don’t have to speak out loud. However, free on-campus events will usually help your experience and maybe teach you something your college offers that you never knew existed.

    Honourable Mention: The free version of the Grammarly App – seriously. This saves you time writing essays, discussion posts, emails, etc. I used the free version for my first year and the paid version for my final two years. I’ll probably keep using it as long as I’m in school.

    Each school has different resources. The ones I’ve listed are based on my experience in 2 universities and 1 college in Canada. Most I’ve used while some I wish I used more as they could’ve changed my grades or my sense of loneliness while in post-secondary.

    I hope this post was helpful!